My Breast Perspective

Every experience, every person in my life has shaped me into the person I am today. I was lucky enough to meet my husband when I was 23  and learn this lesson from him. It’s taken me a very long time to believe it in my heart, which is why I’m just now writing this blog and feeling strong enough to put this out into the universe to share with you.

This isn’t an easy concept as there are so many moments in life that are easy to regret. But once I recognized the importance of loving myself even through the most difficult times and finding the meaning in those moments, I started to find peace and learned how to prioritize gratitude.  

Obviously that’s not to say that looking back I’m grateful that my mom got sick and passed away when I was only 15. But through that very difficult time I did learn a lot about perseverance and navigating my own path.  I am grateful for the time I had with her and the foundation she and my dad gave me up to that point in my life.

I’m truly grateful for the people in my life that have supported me along the way. 

I’m grateful for my family and friends who help me stay in the moment and recognize the day-to-day joy of living.

I’m grateful I haven’t had cancer and that I have the opportunity to prevent it!

I’m grateful I found a healthcare team that I trust, who are supportive, and kind, and holding my hand throughout the process.

I’m grateful for all the experiences that have shaped me into who I am today.

I’m grateful my husband is the most loving and supportive person I know.

I’m grateful my kids love me and get me and understand the importance of my choices.

I’m grateful I get to make this choice to fight for the opportunity to continue to live my version of a quality life.

I’m hopeful that my story will shine light on the menu of options people have to fight breast cancer.

And yes if you’re wondering… I will be looking back at this during the challenging time of recovery to remind myself of My Why.